What Makes Men Fall in Love – The Most Important Factor!

what makes men fall in love

Ever wonder what makes Men Fall in Love?

Through my work as a therapist and clinical supervisor, I’ve spent countless hours listening to just about every issue single, married, and divorced guys have when it comes to what they really want in relationships. Those countless hours have given me a unique understanding into what men really want in a partner, what builds attraction with them, and what makes men fall in love and stay in love.

But, first, one important reminder:

You can’t make anyone love you. Nor would you want to.

In fact, that strategy is dysfunctional. Sometimes guys just aren’t ready to commit. Often, they’re so caught up in their own dead-end patterns, they’re incapable of moving forward. Sometimes they’re still healing from heartbreak. Nothing you do will change that and make them fall in love with you. In those cases, you just need to move on. And thank the Universe for saving you from further heartbreak.

So, now that we’ve gotten that caveat out of the way. Time for the juicy secret into what makes men fall in love.

The first key to winning with men is having FUN!

This is the most important law of attraction! Men want to be with a woman who is happy and enjoying herself. The happier you are and the more you’re enjoying yourself with him, the more connected he feels to you. He takes credit for it. Your happiness is his happiness! And, even if he really hasn’t done anything in particular to bring you happiness in that moment, he instinctively knows that he has the power to please you. So that power makes men fall in love.

Yet, if you’re not happy, he feels like he’s failed. In fact, believing they can’t please a woman is one of the biggest reasons men won’t commit.

This is why it’s so crucial for you to create a happy life for yourself, whether you’re single or in a relationship.

There are of course, many different ways to have fun. You and your guy can try new things, enjoy downtime together, laugh and joke around, or go on exciting adventures. I’m not saying you have to be the life of the party or have a smile on your face 24/7. You still have to be real.

The most successful and lasting relationships are ones where having fun and enjoying life is a priority.

In this special video, I share more on what men want and how fun makes a man fall in love.

So there you have it – the inside scoop into what makes men fall in love!

When you understand men, communicate positively, and embody your most authentic, confident self, you can create the relationship of your dreams.

And to help you with realizing your dreams, you can get support from one of my expert Dating and Relationship Coaches. During your complementary 40-minute session, a coach will answer your personal questions and give you the action steps that could make all the difference.

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As a relationship expert, I've helped thousands of women get the love they want-even when it seemed impossible.  I'm Dr. Diana Kirschner. You might know me from my PBS Special, seen me on Oprah, or have read one of my bestselling books.

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