Finding Soulmate Love: Ancient Secrets Revealed

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Finding Soulmate Love

This is another research report in the Soulmate Blog. We all feel unlucky at times. Especially in love.  Wouldn’t it be great to turn that losing streak around, to set the stage for finding Soulmate love? I’m going to share a few ancient secrets that have been recently studied in a major university. And you can use them for finding soulmate love and getting lucky in love.

Gemstones and Finding Soulmate Love Intentions

You are going to love them because they involve shopping! Look for a gemstone or a piece of jewelry that symbolizes your Finding Soulmate Love Intention. Stop rolling your eyes. Look, I’ve seen the positive impact that “gem therapy” has had on the women I’ve helped over 25+ years. But now there’s also some serious science behind this claim!


Gemstones have been studied for thousands of years in China, India and Tibet. Their healing properties and their ability to empower the wearer in matters of finding soulmate love appear in humanity’s most ancient texts.  They’re even part of mankind’s oldest medical system, Ayurveda. In Aryuveda, specific gems are used to re-balance the body and heal disease.  But as a psychologist and scientist, I had to see whether this was all just superstition. I began to study the literature on charms and amulets and came across fascinating research.

Good Luck vs. Bad Luck in Science

For example, in a recent series of studies at the University of Cologne, psychologists explored superstitious beliefs in college students. The overwhelming majority of students polled believed in the notion of good luck vs. bad luck. The researchers then set up six different controlled experiments designed to test how these beliefs might affect performance on a variety of physical and mental tests.  In one experiment, golfers who were given a “lucky ball” were 35% more accurate in their putting than when they got “the ball everyone else” used.

 The sixth and last study was most relevant to our discussion. Forty-one students were asked to bring their own lucky charm a ring, pearl necklace or jade stone to a memory experiment. Half of them were allowed to keep the charm while the other half were required to hand their charms to the experimenter. The results were fascinating. Those with their lucky charm had less anxiety, felt more confident and did significantly better on the memory test. The authors concluded that the subjects with jewelry displayed what psychologists call self-efficacy or self-confidence in action.

What Can We Take Away?

We don’t know whether these lucky charms or stones are part of a placebo effect. But very recent brain research has already shown the power of belief and intention in reorganizing the brain’s perceptions. What do you have to lose by selecting particular stones that are aligned with your intention to find soulmate love? Putting the gemstone on and touching it during the day will remind you of your Soulmate Love Intention.  Through these simple actions, your gemstone can help you focus on creating an exciting love future.


Finding Soulmate Love Intentions and Their Gemstones

Below are three categories of Finding Soulmate Love Intentions and the select stones that go along with them. Pick a stone and wear it next to your skin as a necklace or ring. Each gemstone is like a string you tie around your finger to remember something important.

Finding Soulmate Love Intentions: wear Rose Quartz heart, Goldstone heart or Lapis.

Getting a Commitment: Wear Diamond chips, Jade butterfly or Pearls.

For Increasing Passion/Intimacy in A Relationship: Wear Moonstone, Sunstone or Fire Quartz Heart.

Go shopping and treat yourself to the ancient secret of gem therapy.  You will feel more grounded and focused on finding soulmate love you want to create. For more on finding soulmate love intentions, pick up a copy of Love in 90 Days. You’ll be increasing your chances in finding the one that is just right for you. In the meantime, have some fun and check out the soulmate quiz. See how your last beau scored on the quiz.


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