What Do Women Want?  A Must-Read for Guys

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Men always are asking me, What Do Women Want?  Well here are the 9 must-know tips that will answer that question once and for all.  If you are a guy, read on.  If you are a woman, share this blog with your boyfriend or husband.  You will be very happy you did!

What Do Women Want?  Tip #1  Flirt before getting into nitty-gritty sexual pursuit

Whether they are just meeting you, or married for decades, women love flirting.  Don’t just grab at her in a blunt sexual way.  Instead, use soft touch, a lingering gentle kiss on the neck or a wicked wink.  Caress or kiss her hand.  Flirting goes a long way to get the juices going. And it will bring a woman’s attention to the relationship and to you.

What Do Women Want?  Tip #2  Be a bit cocky when you do flirt.

Give yourself a Diamond Self nickname like Captain Jack, or Slow Hand Luke.  Look at her like you’re about to devour her with your eyes.  Make cocky statements like, “You are going to love what I’ll be up to in bed with you!” This is a matter of acting confident.  It will give her the vibe of the alpha male, which is usually irresistible to women.

What Do Women Want?  Tip #3  Be consistent in giving her attention

If you are dating, make sure you make regular contact via text, calls and setting up dates.  Don’t let her fall into anxiety wondering if you are ghosting her.  If you are living together or married, don’t get lost in work and diss her!  Pay attention and respond rapidly when your beloved initiates contact with you.

What Do Women Want?  Tip #4 Compliment her

Women absolutely love appreciation and validation! Notice what she does, looks like, or is wearing.  Appreciate the gifts of beauty, presence, food and love she brings.  Then give her sincere compliments.  You can say, You really make me feel so happy!  I love that sexy dress on you!  You are the most wonderful woman and the best cook in the world!  You get the idea!

What Do Women Want?  Tip #5  Process your real feelings with her

Women like to hear what is really going on with their partners at an emotional level.  If you are having problems at work, let her know you are feeling anxious, sad, or resentful of you’re a#*hole boss.  This is so much better than just coming home in a foul mood and getting angry at her. Or withdrawing from her.  Instead ask her if you can go for a walk together and talk about what is really going on with you.  This way, she will feel close to you and can be emotionally supportive. Women love to be emotionally there for their guys.

What Do Women Want?  Tip #6  When she is talking, simply listen to her (especially when she’s upset!)

Women need to be heard.  They need to process their thoughts and emotions even more than guys do.  This is very important in order to have a relationship in which your woman feels understood by you.  And close to you.  When she talks, do not bring up your concerns.  Stop talking yourself and, instead, listen carefully.  And nod your head to indicate you understand what she is feeling. You will have one happy woman!

What Do Women Want?  Tip #7  Do not attempt to fix her problems if she does not ask you to

But what if she is massively upset, crying and miserable?  Or furious because someone screwed her over.  In those situations, you will feel like you HAVE to give her advice.  That you need to help her to quiet down and to stop being so upset.  To solve her problem once and for all.  Resist these helpful impulses If she does not ask for help or advice!  Instead just listen!

What Do Women Want?  Tip #8  Promptly help her solve her problems if she asks you for help

If she finally admits she cannot fix the computer issue that is driving her crazy.  Or that she need help in figuring out how to handle her narcissistic boss, and then asks you for help, give it to her right away.  Show her that she is important in your life.  And that being for her comes first.  No excuses about you being too busy at work, etc.  Drop everything , give her advice and/or go to her and  help her out.  Show her that she is your Beloved!  And you are there to care for her and help make her life great.

What Do Women Want?  Tip #9  Tell her how much you love her!

In fact, you can use texts, emojis, cards, words, gifts and gestures to tell your beloved how much you really love her. Whether you have been together for several months or many decades, this is very important.  Women thrive on romance!

So there you have 9 key tips on what women want.  If you are having problems with creating the kind of love you really want, have a complimentary Breakthrough-To-Love Session by phone or Skype.

 

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1 Comments

  1. Erika Gloss on May 5, 2020 at 9:44 am

    Wow that is interesting



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