Finding Your Soulmate with an Ai Dating Assistant

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If finding true love feels like looking for a needle in a haystack, consider getting yourself an ai dating assistant!  Ever wished you had instant charm or the allure of Cleopatra in your online dating profile? In fact, with the groundbreaking advancements in Artificial Intelligence (AI), this wish can come true. We unveil the sizzling secrets behind using an ai dating assistant to supercharge your profile that will amp up your dating life and blaze a trail to forever love!

Using an ai Dating Assistant:  Step One, Prepare

Start by answering at least 4 of the following questions.

  • What would your friend’s say they love about you? 
  • What are you passionate about and why?
  • Do you cook? If so, do you have a signature dish?
  • What’s your favorite book and why? Favorite movie and why? Favorite music and why?
  • What traveling have you done? What was your favorite place and why?
  • What are your hobbies, favorite ways to exercise or favorite things? Why?
  • Describe the relationship you are going to have with your beloved.
  • List things you’d love to experience with your man.

For example, Fran, in our coaching program, asked her friends what they loved about her and they said, “You are warm, loving and kind.”  So for question #2 Fran wrote down that she was passionate about travel.  For #6 she said she loved going to the beach.  And for #8 she wrote down “forever love.”

Using an AI Dating Assistant:  Step Two, Use the free site ChatGPT.

Go to ChatGPT and enter the following prompt:

Write an irresistibly attractive dating profile for a woman seeking a man, using the following information: (add your answers to the questions).

For example, Fran wrote the following prompt:

Write an irresistibly attractive dating profile for a woman seeking a man, using the following information: warm, loving kind, love to travel, going to have sunset walks on the beach, forever love

Using an AI Dating Assistant:  Step Three, Refine the first draft written by ChatGPT

 Fran got the following profile from her first prompt.

Seeking Forever Love: An Irresistible Journey Awaits!

Hello there, fellow wanderer of hearts! I am a warm, loving, and kind-hearted woman who believes that life is best shared with a partner in crime. Allow me to take you on a captivating journey through my dating profile, where we’ll explore the depths of love and embark on adventures together.

If you’re a man who appreciates the beauty of both the world and the human spirit, then we already share a common thread. My passion for travel knows no bounds, and I’m ready to explore enchanting destinations hand-in-hand with a kindred soul. Whether it’s strolling through bustling markets in Marrakech or immersing ourselves in the rich history of Rome, I believe that every journey is made unforgettable by the presence of someone special.

So one of my favorite ways to connect with nature and find solace in tranquility is through sunset walks on the beach. Picture us, walking barefoot along the shoreline, as the sun gently kisses the horizon, painting the sky with hues of gold and pink. The serenity of the ocean’s embrace and the sand beneath our toes create a magical setting for heartfelt conversations and stolen glances. In fact, let’s create our own love story against the backdrop of breathtaking sunsets.

My heart longs for that forever love—the kind that transcends time and leaves an indelible mark on our souls. I am a firm believer in the power of genuine connections, where love flows effortlessly and unconditionally. With me, you’ll find a woman who understands the importance of nurturing a relationship, valuing trust, and cherishing the little moments that make life beautiful.

In addition to my passion for travel and love, I find joy in exploring diverse cuisines, indulging in captivating novels, and immersing myself in artistic expressions. But what truly makes my heart sing is the joy of giving back. 

So my dear adventurer, if you’re ready to embark on a journey of love, laughter, and heartfelt connections, I invite you to reach out and join me in creating a forever love story. Let’s seize every opportunity to embrace life’s wonders and build a bond that can weather any storm. Are you ready to write our destiny together?

Swipe right and let’s start our incredible journey!

Using an AI Dating Assistant:  Step Four, Refine the second draft written by  ChatGPT

However, Fran did not feel like this profile represented her own voice.  She refined the profile by adding the following prompt in her GPT conversation:   Make this shorter and less flowery. 

So here is what ChatGPT wrote:

Seeking Forever Love: An Irresistible Connection Awaits!

Hello there! I’m a warm, loving, and kind-hearted woman searching for a man who shares my passion for travel and a desire for a lasting love. Let’s walk on the beach at sunset, exploring new destinations together. I believe in genuine connections that stand the test of time. If you’re ready for an adventure filled with love and cherished moments, let’s connect and create our own forever love story. Swipe right and let’s start our incredible journey!


Using an ai Dating Assistant:  Step Five, Continue tweaking your profile until it sounds like the best representation of you, in your own voice.

For example, Fran liked her  second profile draft much better, but she felt it should be more chatty.  So she simply wrote, make  this more chatty in the ChatGPT prompt box.

And the last and final draft of her profile was perfect for her!

Hey there! I’m a warm, loving, and kind-hearted woman on the lookout for an amazing man who’s up for some serious adventure! I absolutely love to travel and explore new places. Picture us, strolling hand-in-hand on the beach at sunset, taking in the breathtaking views. I believe in real, lasting connections that can weather any storm. If you’re ready to dive into an incredible journey filled with love and unforgettable moments, then let’s connect and create our very own forever love story! So, what do you say? Let’s swipe right and start this amazing adventure together!

So there you have it, loves!   Use your own free ai dating assistant to create an amazing dating profile that really represents you and the relationship you want. After you are happy with your draft, simply copy and paste it onto your dating site.  And voila, you will get much better matches.  But, if you are having trouble with your ai assistant, definitely take advantage of a free coaching session with one of my amazing coaches. In fact, if you sign up for a mentoring package, I will personally create a profile that really pops!









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  1. Zara on July 4, 2023 at 8:02 am

    Wow, this article caught my attention! The idea of using an AI dating assistant to find your soulmate is intriguing. Technology is evolving rapidly, and this is just another example of how it’s changing how we approach dating and relationships. I’m curious to know more about how this AI dating assistant works and what results people have been getting. Has anyone here tried using an AI dating assistant? I’d love to hear about your experiences!

  2. ChatGPT User on August 1, 2023 at 7:52 pm

    This article is fascinating! Do you think AI dating assistants can truly understand human emotions and preferences to improve matchmaking effectively?

  3. Sam Kirschner on October 5, 2023 at 12:03 pm


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