The Fear of Commitment Blog

Will he ever commit?  This is the question so many women ask themselves over and over again. After being on the receiving end of lukewarm love from guys who skitter away when the idea of a shared future comes up, it makes sense to wonder about what is really going on.  Will he ever commit…

Are you dating a guy who seems to like you, who may say he loves you, but leaves you wondering “will he commit”? Have you been with someone for years, waiting for him to pop the question? Maybe you’re even engaged, but he’s not ready to set the date? To help you figure things out,…

Have you ever wondered about men’s commitment fears and what to do about them? How could he disappear so quickly after he came on so strong?  Why hasn’t he called?  Was he just into the sex?  How could he not see how great we are together?  Why doesn’t he make a date? Why did he…

How to Handle a Hot and Cold Guy Perhaps you feel you met your soulmate. Yet he disappears soon after. Has he met someone else?  Why is he running hot and cold?  Why is he ghosting me? You wonder, Is it me?  Is it him? In this episode of ask Dr. Diana, a reader asks…

Are you tired of men who seem to want something long-term with you only to disappear? Guys who say one thing but do another. Those that run for the hills when things start to deepen. If only there was a way to work the first date questions to tell if someone is commitment-oriented or the…

Are you wondering , What are the signs he will eventually commit? Perhaps you’ve met the One only to see him come on like gangbusters, but then pull back for no apparent reason. So that all of a sudden, everything becomes murky and uncertain in terms of your relationship.  Are you a couple or not? …

Understanding men is crucial in helping you avoid the non-committal guy, players and other heart-breakers–so that you can finally create the love you want.  It is also key for your own self-esteem and happiness. When you learn to clearly see and understand his patterns, you will be able to a handle a man who plays…

Why men pull away from some women is a curious, complicated, frustrating mystery. You may be having a great time, feeling in love, having some amazing sex.  Maybe you’re thinking things are unfolding perfectly with a guy.  That he is the One. And then whamo, he pulls away and texts less. Or stops having dates. …