Relationship Advice for Lasting Love

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How Happy Couples Deal

Did you ever wonder how happy couples deal with resentful or anxious feelings? How happy couples deal with feelings of hopelessness or loneliness? So, are you feeling resentful, anxious, distant, or lonely in your relationship?  Whether you have been dating two months or married 10 years, things can go south all too easily in couples. …

Health in Happy Couples: the Michelangelo Effect

Health in Happy Couples: the Michelangelo Effect

The Mental Health of Happy Couples Ever wonder whether there is better overall health in happy couples? Or whether there is better psychological and physical health in happy couples compared with unhappy partners? Let’s first start with depression because it affects about 20 million adults in the U.S. alone and is therefore one of the…

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Happy Couples Communication Secrets

Ever wonder, what are the communication secrets of happy couples? Well there definitely are secrets that are common to a long-lasting and passionate relationship. In fact, there are eight of them. And when practiced regularly become the habits of a passionate relationship. We don’t have room here to cover them all. But let’s look at…


Appreciation in Happy Couples is the Key to Happiness

Appreciation in Happy Couples Appreciation in happy couples is a key to their happiness. In fact, partners in passionate long-term happy couples live in a state of appreciation for each other. They tend to see each other through a glass half-full perspective rather than a half-empty one. In other words, they tend to place greater…

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Happy Couples Four Sex Secrets

Did you ever wonder what the best sex secrets of happy couples are? Most people can’t imagine how partners in long-term happy couples keep the passion and sizzle going. Well one of our Love Mentoring clients was certainly mystified.  Bridget signed up for ongoing dating coaching. And within the year found new charisma and new…

Happy couples know six secrets that others don’t

Happy Couples Six Secrets

The other day I asked Sam, my husband of more than twenty-five years, why he stays with me. He said, “Because I feel good around you.” Feeling good and at home with a woman is one of the drivers for a man to be in a long-term relationship. But is that all there is? No,…

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Happy Couples Passionate Love

Lasting passionate love in happy couples is not achieved by reading love advice or self-help books or dumping the problem partner you’re with and going on to the next grass-is-greener pasture to find the One. Happy couples create lasting passionate love the hard way, through daily, weekly and monthly practice of four key strategies. How…

What Men Want in a Love Relationship

Do you ever wonder what the heck is going on with men and relationships? Tired of all their confusing signals? One minute they want you, the next they seem ambivalent and distant. What do men really want in a love relationship? Through my work as a psychologist and clinical supervisor of other individual, couple, and…

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Dating a Single Dad? Nine Must-Have Tips

The Rise of Single Dad Households More and more fathers have full or joint custody of children. Chances are high that you may find yourself dating a single dad. If you don’t have kids yourself, this can be both exciting and daunting. Nine Tips To Keep in Mind When Dating a Single Dad 1. Slow…

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Confession: How Not to Ruin your Relationship

Here’s one way not to ruin your relationship. This one piece of valuable advice is about how not to ruin your relationship. I have a confession to make. I almost ruined my relationship with my husband, Sam. Not because I wasn’t sure if I loved him anymore. It was because of my habit to make…


Tired of loneliness and disappointment in your love life or marriage? This will change everything...

As a relationship expert, I've helped thousands of women get the love they want - even when it seemed impossible.  I’m Dr. Diana Kirschner. You might know me from my PBS Special, seen me on Oprah, or have read one of my bestselling books.


I want to do everything I can to give you hands-on personalized support that will make a lasting difference.

During your powerful and dynamic one-on-one session, we will help you with your unique relationship or dating situation. You'll walk away inspired, with a clear step-by-step path forward  to move through any obstacles and get the love you want.

Here's what women like you are saying:

“My session was an incredible game-changer! I was finally able to see a way forward with my boyfriend and he has proposed!

I’m very grateful!”  ~Jenn in New Mexico

matchmaker, dating coach, dating tips, dating & relationship advice“I was fifty-two years old with a career that was enviably successful. But my love life was not. And I couldn't figure out why. As my love mentor, Diana helped me understand that I not only deserved to have but could have a strong, loving life partner who would always be there for me. I found true love in three months!*. And after 4 plus years of marriage, my husband and I still pinch ourselves every day to make sure that it's not a dream!” ~ Midge Woolsey