5 Pieces of the Best Dating Advice for Introverts Is making small talk (or any kind of talk) hard for you?  Do you feel shy, awkward or uncomfortable in dating?  Getting unwanted and unhelpful dating advice from friends or family? Well then you’ve come to the right place. Just for you, I’m sharing five pieces…

The Diamond Self Process is a revolutionary approach that allows you to give your mind instructions about creating a new identity and banishing self-sabotage forever. Precise instructions that help you create inner strength, self-love, empowerment, and success automatically in every area of your life. Because it is aimed at the internal world, your mind and…

Here’s a short clip on the prince myth from Love in 90 Days: Finding Your Own True Love, a PBS TV Special now available on Amazon Prime Video. I hope that you find it inspiring. The show aims at boomers with practical dating tips. Plus it offers relationship advice to help you bring more love…

Do Smart Men Really Marry Down? About 14 years ago, the psyches of successful single women were singed with worry when journalist John Schwartz wrote a New York Times article titled “Glass Ceiling at Altar as Well as Bedroom.” He claimed that “men would rather marry their secretaries than their bosses.” The following year, Maureen…

Sex on the Third Date: Yes Or No? Do you ever wonder whether to have sex on the third date or risk losing the guy?  Maybe you’ve heard the urban legend that tells you it’s either fish or cut bait at that point. And that he will definitely walk if you don’t put out.  But…

When You Want Kids Now Do you feel your biological clock is ticking? Yet you haven’t met the right person to have kids with? You’ve always wanted children. You figured it was a given that you’d meet the right guy, get married and start a family. Every time you worried it might not happen, you…

Thinking of Hiring a Matchmaker? Are you feeling frustrated with dating?  Many women end up hiring a matchmaker out of a feeling of stagnation, frustration and disappointment in their love lives. However, for a myriad of reasons, matchmaking may be a less-than-optimal choice. Let’s look at the pros and cons of hiring a matchmaker vs.…

Four Tips for Dating A Man with Kids Dating a man with kids can be daunting, especially if he’s really involved with them. And if the children are young he will place them above you in terms of time, attention and importance. Can you handle that? This blog includes a video response to a reader…

This video is part of the Understanding Men Series. What do men mean when they say, “I have a lot going on.” How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? Why hasn’t he texted? Why does he pull away every time we get close? Was it just about the sex? How could…

Are men really after one thing: sex? It’s been almost 10 years since I originally wrote this piece. So I wanted to update the research findings and my own learning about what are men really after. Honestly, not a lot has changed. Commercials, ads, sitcoms, reality shows and popular magazines still tell us that guys…