Sex on the Third Date: Yes Or No? Do you ever wonder whether to have sex on the third date or risk losing the guy?  Maybe you’ve heard the urban legend that tells you it’s either fish or cut bait at that point. And that he will definitely walk if you don’t put out.  But…

When You Want Kids Now Do you feel your biological clock is ticking? Yet you haven’t met the right person to have kids with? You’ve always wanted children. You figured it was a given that you’d meet the right guy, get married and start a family. Every time you worried it might not happen, you…

Thinking of Hiring a Matchmaker? Are you feeling frustrated with dating?  Many women end up hiring a matchmaker out of a feeling of stagnation, frustration and disappointment in their love lives. However, for a myriad of reasons, matchmaking may be a less-than-optimal choice. Let’s look at the pros and cons of hiring a matchmaker vs.…

Four Tips for Dating A Man with Kids Dating a man with kids can be daunting, especially if he’s really involved with them. And if the children are young he will place them above you in terms of time, attention and importance. Can you handle that? This blog includes a video response to a reader…

This video is part of the Understanding Men Series. What do men mean when they say, “I have a lot going on.” How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? Why hasn’t he texted? Why does he pull away every time we get close? Was it just about the sex? How could…

Are men really after one thing: sex? It’s been almost 10 years since I originally wrote this piece. So I wanted to update the research findings and my own learning about what are men really after. Honestly, not a lot has changed. Commercials, ads, sitcoms, reality shows and popular magazines still tell us that guys…

Secret Flirting Tips Here’s one of my most popular vids on secret flirting tips.  Dr. Diana Kirschner teaches you powerful secret flirting tips designed to help you attract and date great men! You will learn three different flirting tips based on Dr. Diana’s bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days. And don’t forget,…

Overcoming Abandonment Fears Do you ever feel like you have to be perfect or you’ll be rejected? Do you sometimes panic when you don’t receive a quick response to a text, email or voicemail?  What about not speaking your truth in relationships because you think it might drive your partner away? Do you tend to…

He Broke My Heart and Still Texts Me Have you ever wondered? Why is the guy who broke my heart still contacting me? Should I get back with him? How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? Why hasn’t he texted? Why does he pull away every time we get close? Was…

A study of dating behavior at the University of Pennsylvania reveals that people don’t need a lot of time with or information about a person to tell if they’re romantically interested. Sounds like love at first sight, right? Single people’s behavior suggests that individuals know “it” (a person who appeals to them or even love…