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Dating Patterns of The Sex and The City Women

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | January 13, 2013 |

Four Sex & the City Dating Patterns Now that a whole generation has discovered SATC, I thought it would be fun to revise one of my first blogs on this site.  Hope you enjoy! Are you more like Carrie, Samantha, Miranda or Charlotte? Which of the four Sex & The City dating patterns are you?…

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Is Marriage Toxic to Women?

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | October 20, 2012 |

Here’s another informative research report on the question “is marriage toxic to women?” in our Dating Advice for Women Series Is marriage Toxic to Women? Many studies compare single people with couples as to their quality of life and general health and happiness. These reports have come to conflicting conclusions.  Some studies show that couples…


Two Powerful Secrets to Creating Self Love

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | October 14, 2012 |

What happens when we look in a mirror? We say “You’re so fat!” “Look at that wrinkle!” “You are definitely getting old!” All these things and much worse. Can you imagine saying to your best friend, “You are a mess! Your rear end is as big as a house!” We would never say these kinds…

Four Ways You Can Overcome Shyness

8 Flirting Tips That Say You’re Interested

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | October 1, 2012 |

Eight Flirting Tips That Say You’re Interested I get a lot of emails that ask me for flirting tips that show a man that you’re interested without being too obvious.  Here’s one from 48-year old Ellen in Phoenix: “I see Al at parties and he’s so attractive in a laid-back way.  We always talk and laugh, but…

Handling A Non-Committal Guy

Why Are Some Men Emotionally Unavailable?

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 30, 2012 |

Is this Man Emotionally Unavailable? Perhaps you feel you met the One. Yet he disappears soon after. Has he met someone else?  Why is he running hot and cold?  Do you have a future together?  You wonder, Is it me?  Is it him? Is this man emotionally unavailable and why do I mess with him? Emotionally…

The Biggest Lie about Age that Women Still Believe

The Biggest Lie about Age that Women Still Believe

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 29, 2012 |

The biggest lie about age The biggest lie about age that women still believe is that men are not attracted to older women. That if you’re single and hit your 40s, 50s, 60s or 70s, it is next to impossible to get a great guy. For companionship, fun and real romance. Most of us fall…

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How I Met and Fell For “Vampire Bill” from True Blood

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 22, 2012 |

Here is a another true or should that be True Blood dating story ! Have you ever seen True Blood? Well, this blog is my own true blood dating story. True blood is about a virginal clairvoyant named Sookie and her encounters with supernatural beings like vampires, especially one sexy and virtuous vampire named Bill. She…

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Secrets of Online Dating Success For Over 40s: Part 2

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 21, 2012 |

Welcome to the Baby Boomer Dating Series. In this blog we continue with Part 2 of online dating success for those of you women over 40. Part 1 covered the importance of the photo in great detail.  Today, you’ll learn five more specific tips that have helped many over 40s women achieve online dating success.…

Secrets of Online Dating Success For Over 40s

Secrets of Online Dating Success For Over 40s: Part 1

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 20, 2012 |

Welcome to the Baby Boomer Dating Series. With more than thirty million unique visitors per month on U.S. dating sites alone, your chances of meeting the One online have never been better.  Even if you are over 40. But to get the most of your baby boomer dating experience, you’ll need to generate a lot…

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The Love Mentor’s Sex Secrets Part 2

By Dr. Diana Kirschner | September 8, 2012 |

A Love Mentoring Case Study of a Successful Woman Because sexual intimacy is such a common issue in couples I wanted to share this email I just got from Kate. Kate is a successful 41 year old film producer. And like Kate, most of us need to be taught the special sex secrets that help…

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