Dating Tips, Relationship Advice
The Diamond Self Process is a revolutionary approach that allows you to give your mind instructions about creating a new identity and banishing self-sabotage forever. Precise instructions that help you create inner strength, self-love, empowerment, and success automatically in every area of your life. Because it is aimed at the internal world, your mind and […]
Here’s a short clip on the prince myth from Love in 90 Days: Finding Your Own True Love, a PBS TV Special now available on Amazon Prime Video. I hope that you find it inspiring. The show aims at boomers with practical dating tips. Plus it offers relationship advice to help you bring more love […]
Meditation for Healing Your Love Relationship Meditation has been the cornerstone of spiritual practices for thousands of years. It has been proven by scientific research to be one of the most potent and lasting destressors. I believe that the reason it is so effective is that meditation can put you in touch with a Higher […]
Do Smart Men Really Marry Down? About 14 years ago, the psyches of successful single women were singed with worry when journalist John Schwartz wrote a New York Times article titled “Glass Ceiling at Altar as Well as Bedroom.” He claimed that “men would rather marry their secretaries than their bosses.” The following year, Maureen […]
Seven Tips to Makeover Valentine’s Day Are you sick of yet another Hallmark holiday? Tired of the same-o same-o? Let’s try to have fun this year by sharing in a makeover valentine’s day project with friends. “Don’t be a shnook. It’s not how you feel—it’s how you look.” ~Fernando, aka Billy Crystal on SNL Fernando […]
Sex on the Third Date: Yes Or No? Do you ever wonder whether to have sex on the third date or risk losing the guy? Maybe you’ve heard the urban legend that tells you it’s either fish or cut bait at that point. And that he will definitely walk if you don’t put out. But […]
This blog has a special treat for you. First, I’ll share my best dating tips for over 45 women. Then at the end, you can download a free MP3 interview conducted by Anne Holmes, from the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. I discuss exactly how over 45 women can succeed in finding the love of […]
Why Can’t I Find A Relationship? Ask Dr. Diana Here’s another in the series of Ask Dr. Diana videos. I answer an email from a 38-year old who can’t find a relationship with a guy that leads to lasting love. She says, she’s tried everything. Well, Dr. Diana prescribes a dating intervention for this frustrated […]
When You Want Kids Now Do you feel your biological clock is ticking? Yet you haven’t met the right person to have kids with? You’ve always wanted children. You figured it was a given that you’d meet the right guy, get married and start a family. Every time you worried it might not happen, you […]
Thinking of Hiring a Matchmaker? Are you feeling frustrated with dating? Many women end up hiring a matchmaker out of a feeling of stagnation, frustration and disappointment in their love lives. However, for a myriad of reasons, matchmaking may be a less-than-optimal choice. Let’s look at the pros and cons of hiring a matchmaker vs. […]
The Bonfire of Past Hurts With love comes pain. To love is to become vulnerable, opening your boundaries so that you become one with the Beloved. But, because we are all human, all imperfect, there inevitably comes a loss of connection either in small ways, through subtle distancing, criticism or conflict, or in much more […]
Men with Wandering Eyes Many couples face the problems caused by jealousy and let’s face it men who can’t stop checking out other women with their wandering eyes. It may have all started when you saw him looking at the hottie. And it went downhill from there. You may have made some jabbing accusations, started […]
Dating A Man with Kids Dating a man with kids can be daunting, especially if he’s really involved with them. And if the children are young he will place them above you in terms of time, attention and importance. Can you handle that? This blog includes a video response to a reader who is dating […]
Turn Love Disappointments into Triumphs I was on the Today show doing a segment about how to turn love disappointments into victories. Here are the five tips I was not able to give on air, the steps you can take that can help when things go south, especially in your dating or love life. Life almost always […]
Living Together: Census Numbers For the first time in U.S. history more couples are living together compared to those who are married and this trend is continuing. About a quarter of unmarried women age 25 to 39 are living with a partner. And about 53% of all first marriages were preceded by living together. More […]
The Complexity of Long Distance Relationships Long Distance Relationships can be challenging. You meet a great person and it feels like a glorious, soulmate relationship. You are dreaming about an amazing future with this great match, who definitely feels like the One. Only problem is, he or she lives a long way away from where […]
Have you ever dreamed of escaping from loneliness? Have you ever dreamed of ending loneliness? Of not doing it all by yourself? Or do you want to feel secure and nourished by a real partner who Appreciates You for Who You Really Are? What if I told you that total self-reliance is a prescription for […]
This video is part of the Understanding Men Series. What do men mean when they say, “I have a lot going on.” How could he disappear after he was so totally into me? Why hasn’t he texted? Why does he pull away every time we get close? Was it just about the sex? How could […]
Are men really after one thing: sex? It’s been almost 10 years since I originally wrote this piece. So I wanted to update the research findings and my own learning about what are men really after. Honestly, not a lot has changed. Commercials, ads, sitcoms, reality shows and popular magazines still tell us that guys […]
Secret Flirting Tips Here’s one of my most popular vids on secret flirting tips. Dr. Diana Kirschner teaches you powerful secret flirting tips designed to help you attract and date great men! You will learn three different flirting tips based on Dr. Diana’s bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days. And don’t forget, […]
Why the Right One May Not Initially Like the Right One This blog is part of our continuing series on successful women dating. Have you noticed that the right one may not initially look like he’s your soulmate? Well, you’re not alone in that quandary. Here’s the story of a successful doctor who couldn’t seem […]
Emotional Infidelity vs. Cheating I recently was on a national TV show discussing cheating on Facebook. So I thought it would be useful to write a post on emotional infidelity. What’s the difference between Emotional and Physical Infidelity? In emotional infidelity a partner gives another person their heart, their intimate thoughts, their caring and appreciation. […]
Overcoming Abandonment Fears Do you ever feel like you have to be perfect or you’ll be rejected? Do you sometimes panic when you don’t receive a quick response to a text, email or voicemail? What about not speaking your truth in relationships because you think it might drive your partner away? Do you tend to […]
Soulmate Talking: The Power of Speaking Your Truth Ever wonder how happy couples communicate with each other? What is the secret of their soulmate talking behavior? Well, I just got an email from Ellen, in Iowa who’s feeling frustrated in her relationship with her live-in boyfriend: Dear Dr. Diana, Sometimes I feel like it is […]
Finding Soulmate Love This is another research report in the Soulmate Blog. We all feel unlucky at times. Especially in love. Wouldn’t it be great to turn that losing streak around, to set the stage for finding Soulmate love? I’m going to share a few ancient secrets that have been recently studied in a major university. […]
