Posts by Dr. Diana Kirschner
Love is Blind: Here’s How to Date During the Coronavirus
As the Netflix show (and the old saying) goes, love is blind! Which means that you can find true love during the coronavirus outbreak– in spite of all its hysteria and social distancing. And just maybe, because of it. Dating is doing well! There has been no change in the number of people downloading dating…
Read MoreHow to Get a Guy to Ask You Out
Are you wondering just how to get a guy to ask you out? Maybe you are super interested in a hottie on a site, app or IRL (in real life). In fact, you may be smitten and really want to get to know him. But you want him to pursue you and ask you out…
Read More6 Secrets to Finding Sexual Chemistry & Keeping it Juicy
Sexual Chemistry– an amazing, juicy feeling of physical attraction between two people that is magnetic, turns on sensory receptors and causes a person to feel more alive. The pull is to be close and touch, to caress and pleasure each other fully. And finally, to lose the two separate selves and become one by surrendering…
Read MoreExpand Your Options By Dating a Younger Man
Thinking about dating a younger man? Perhaps you already are. He is attractive, into you, and may have a lot going for him. But he may be 10 or more years younger than you. And while the whole older guy-younger woman thing is accepted in our culture, the reverse is less true– There is still…
Read MoreDating after Divorce: Five Hacks for Success in Love
Dating after divorce is challenging—and it may seem next to impossible. You might be coming out of a long-term marriage, or a depleting relationship where you felt lonely, betrayed, wounded and sad. You may be feeling like you are a “loser” when it comes to relationships. Or feeling like you are damaged, after suffering lots…
Read MoreUnderstanding Men: How to Avoid Non-Committal Guys & Other Heart-Breakers
Understanding men is crucial in helping you avoid the non-committal guy, players and other heart-breakers–so that you can finally create the love you want. It is also key for your own self-esteem and happiness. When you learn to clearly see and understand his patterns, you will be able to a handle a man who plays…
Read MoreMatchmaker, Can You Really Make Me a Match?
There is nothing quite like that great Matchmaker song in the famous play, Fiddler on the Roof. And with online dating and apps being so challenging these days, many smart successful women are thinking of hiring a matchmaker themselves. But the question to ask is, matchmaker, can you really make me a match? You may…
Read MoreHow to Deal With a Narcissist: Four Powerful Ways
Are you wondering just how to deal with a narcissist? It definitely can be challenging, soul-stifling and literally maddening! The first step in how to deal with a narcissist is to recognize he is one. Here is the definition of a narcissist from the Mayo Clinic: Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental condition in which…
Read MoreThe Loving Mother Meditation
As I’ve mentioned before, the primary relationship we have as a template for intimacy is our relationship with the mothering one. In order to build on that, here is a guided imagery loving mother meditation that can help you develop self-love based on the archetype of an unconditionally loving mother. (Not your real mother, even…
Read MoreSay Goodbye to Self Doubt and Hello to Self-Confidence
Here’s a true story about one woman’s journey from self-doubt to true self-confidence. Lila, a very successful forty-year-old pediatric nurse, had been through a painful divorce. Lila Shares Her Journey My 15-year marriage had ended. And there I was three years later, unhinged and afraid to jump into dating. I had an extra 35 pounds…
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