Dating & Relationship Advice for Women

This dating & relationship advice for women blog is an interview with one of our awesome professional Love Mentors®, Tamara Green, LCSW. She is licensed in New York State as a Certified Social Worker and a member of the National Association of Social Workers for 23 years. Tamara’s background and training in mental health, certified hypnotherapy, and belief management allows her to employ powerful techniques such as hypnosis, guided meditation, and experiential exercises as a dating coach.  Nationally recognized, she lectures, and facilitates teleconference groups and workshops.  Now here is a relationship advice interview with Tamara on “How Samantha Used One Simple Idea to Create Sacred Lasting Love”:

Recently , I was so fortunate to have visited beautiful Sedona, Arizona during a Holiday Family Reunion. I was fascinated with the red earth, the rock formations, the twisted trees, the powerful vortexes and the mystical happenings. Wanting to learn more about this incredible place, I did some research and found out that the American Indians never lived in Sedona because they considered it Sacred Ground. They never dreamed of being hurtful, disrespectful or ungrateful of this wonderful land they called their spiritual home. No, their sole purpose in visiting Sedona was only for worship, soul dancing, meditation, and contemplation. So, at least once per year, the Indians would pack up their tee pees and make their journey to Sedona for their emotional and spiritual evolution. They felt honored, open, trusting and grateful toward this land.

My wonderful mentor and friend, Dr Diana Kirschner, once said to me that love relationships are sacred, or at least they can be. I agree with her 100%! And eventually, my mentee, Samantha, did too.  Samantha journeyed from feeling disconnected, discarded and heartbroken in her relationship to feeling like it was sacred, solid ground, a love she could count on.   Can you imagine what this planet would be like if everyone believed that relationships were sacred ground, just like the Indians thought of Sedona? Just feel that one for a second. Wow! People would actually treat each other with honor, openness, trust and gratitude – in other words, be a contributor to their relationships.

News Flash:  Tune into Tamara as she is interviewed on how to create sacred lasting love on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on May 15!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen, Click Here!

Samantha started Love Mentoring® when she thought her relationship with Oscar was over. She admittedly was creating quite a bit of drama when ever things did not go her way.  But now Samantha and Oscar are deeply bonded in love and planning a solid future together where they will travel the world and take it all in.

How can you make that journey in your love life, just like Samantha did?  I started off her sessions with these questions: “Samantha, do you contribute or take away from your relationship? How do you treat this relationship? How do you act? Who are you being, such as, your worst or best self? How would you rate yourself in this relationship (1 being your worst self to 10 being your best self)?” She gave herself a 2. Then I had her explore the roles and identities she was operating from with Oscar. For example, was she the martyr, lazy slug, workaholic, dominator, victim, pleaser, loser, responsible one, thoughtless one, controlling, controlled, abuser, or abused? Samantha realized that she was “The Needy One” and putting pressure on Oscar by needing him to give her what she so desperately wanted – “To fill a void”. And, when that ‘void’ was not being filled, she was able to see that she tramped over, dumped on and complained to Oscar – a lot!. It was clear that she was contributing less than her best and was not treating this relationship as sacred as she could. Samantha and Oscar’s relationship took a complete turnaround when she viewed herself as a contributor. So, instead of looking at Oscar and asking what he should do for her, she asked what she could do for him. Then, Oscar, noticing and appreciating this huge change, naturally started doing this with her, as well.

Now, my question to you is how can you contribute to your partner’s life? In other words, instead of seeing what’s wrong with them or instead of focusing on what they are not doing for you, look at what’s right about them and what they are doing for you! Note: When you are contributing (honoring, valuing, trusting, being in gratitude) to someone else, you are also contributing to yourself.   What goes around comes around.  So I’m happy to report that every area of Samantha’s life has dramatically improved since starting this program!

News Flash:  Tune into Tamara as she is interviewed on how to create sacred lasting love on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on May 15!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen,Click Here!

Do you remember what it felt like when you first got together with your partner? The romantic sparks were flying, you were so excited to be together, you couldn’t stop thinking of each other and you were constantly planning what you would do or say when you were together again and in each other’s arms. The energy that you two were being was spectacular and huge – the size and brightness of the sun – because you were contributing – honoring, trusting, being open and feeling so much gratitude for one another. You began as Sacred Lasting Love. Then time went by and you started expecting things from one other. For example, “He needs to be home on time”. “She needs to cook the meals”. Then came the judgements, “He’s so inconsiderate of my feelings!”. “She’s always nagging and suffocating me with all of her demands!”. The Sacred Lasting Love starts to get smaller and not so bright.  Then comes the anger and frustration with lots of arguments or even worse, the silent treatment. The Sacred Lasting Love shrinks, becoming even more dull. It reaches a high point of disillusionment, deficiency and catastrophe. The relationship is in constant turmoil and the Sacred Lasting Love is now the size of a pea, all black and shriveled. What happened? It started off so grand and amazing and now it’s down right scary!

Are you ready to hear that one simple idea to create Sacred Lasting Love? Are you ready to commit to making one change NOW that could help take your relationship back to sacred? Yes?! Good for you! Here it is: Every day for the next 30 days, tell your partner at least one thing about him or her that you are happy about, appreciate, thankful or grateful for. It doesn’t matter how angry you are at someone, you can always find something about them that you appreciate. Go ahead, try this out and see how things start to change for the better, just like it did for Samantha and Oscar. As a Love Mentor® and Couples Therapist, I have seen marriages on the brink of divorce turn completely around with this easy first step and I know that you and your partner can do it, too!!! Make a stand for yourself, your partner and your relationship and take it back to Sacred Lasting Love!!

Thank you, for your great relationship advice, Tamara! You can get your own one-on-one free 40 minute Love Mentoring® Session with Tamara  by phone or Skype! Just click here  & fill out the form, requesting Tamara.  Hurry–her time will fill up quickly!

Tune into Tamara as she is interviewed on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on May 15!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen,Click Here!

“How Samantha Used One Simple Idea to Create Sacred Lasting Love” -The dating & relationship advice for women interview with Love Mentor® Tamara Green

DATE: Tuesday, May 15, 2012      TIME: 5:00 pm Pacific/8:00pm Eastern for one hour

COST: No charge  JOIN US LIVE VIA: Telephone, Skype, and Replay Access-Click Here For Details

     In this free dating & relationship advice for women seminar you will discover how to:

- Turn around your relationship with Sacred Love

- Show up in the relationship to feel happy and fulfilled forever

- Get endless love from your relationship

- Feel cherished. honored , open, trusting, and more grateful for the one you love

- Stay focused on the one facet of your relationship so that you create lasting love together

- Create Sacred Lasting Love!

And so much more  . . .

Please interact with us live during the show by visiting:  Facebook.com/DrDianaKirschner
Twitter.com/drdiana or Blog Talk Radio Chat

Thank you, Tamara, for your wise words and relationship advice for women. If you would like a free 40-minute love mentoring session  by phone or Skype with Tamara, click hereor go to www.lovein90days.com/coaching and ask for Tamara on the form. For more information about this and future Love Mentoring® Seminars please visit-
http://www.lovementoring.com

Wishing you love,

Dr. Diana

♥Dating Tips & Relationship Advice from My Heart to Yours♥

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & author of the highly acclaimed relationship advice book, “Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love” as well as the best-selling dating advice book, “Love in 90 Days.” Dr. Diana’s revolutionary work is the basis of her PBS Special on love and dating for over 50s. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE Relationship Tips and Dating Advice Newsletter.

Dating Advice for Women Series

Most all of us fall prey to this lie.  And it can feel pretty awful…

However, it’s just not true.

The biggest lie about age that women still believe is—drum roll please—that men are not attracted to older women.  That once you hit your 40s, 50s, 60s or 70s, and you are single, it is next to impossible to get a great guy for the companionship, fun and romance you really want.  THIS IS SIMPLY NOT THE CASE.  It is just that women need support, encouragement and the dating advice tools to make love work (just as younger women do!).  And when they have that kind of coaching women of any age can create a relationship that is over the moon–the best they have ever ever had!

Here is a true love story by Brenda Thomas who is 60-something years young.  Brenda is in Love Mentoring® with one of our awesome coaches, Susan Kalinowski and she finally has her “Mr. Wonderful.”  (Note: If you want a powerful Love Mentor ally to help you, click here and get your own free 40 minute Love Mentoring® session by phone or Skype. You may even be able to speak with Susan, Brenda’s coach.  But hurry, her time slots are limited!). Now here’s Brenda’s story:

Several years ago, my cousin, Jonny, gave me a Mr. Wonderful doll for Christmas.  I had no idea what a hit Mr. Wonderful was making around the country.  He was a hunky male who, when his palm was pressed, uttered phrases like, “Let’s just cuddle tonight.” 

Or “Actually, I’m not sure which way to go.  I’ll turn in here and ask for directions.”  “Honey, why don’t you just relax and let me make dinner tonight” or “Can your mother stay another week?”

Funny, huh?  Not really…obviously, I didn’t have a Mr. Wonderful nor was one coming any time soon.  What’s wrong with just cuddling or asking for directions or making dinner?  Forget the one about my mother staying for another week….even I would have to veto that!

I felt like if I had a guy who came home and said, “Honey, you’ve been on my mind all day.  That’s why I bought you these flowers,”  I would be his adoring slave FOREVER!!!   Of course, that would be after he brought me back to consciousness.   But, as we know, men and women are just wired differently.  Really?  I have to say I’m being challenged in that belief.  Perhaps, we’re not all that different after all.  Maybe, it’s that each of us is unique with our little idiosyncrasies that develop over a lifetime.  Maybe, it’s not so much about being a male or a female. 

Maybe, it’s more about finding the person who makes life a little easier, a little more fun, a little more meaningful.  Finding the person who you can’t wait to share your piece of news with.  Or the person who makes you feel completely content just sitting next to him.

As you know, I’m writing this in my 60s.  I’ve been independent for 16 years…sometimes, happily so and sometimes, reluctantly.  I don’t think that I ever lost that joy for life….the ability to wake up happy every morning and look forward to whatever the day brings.  I don’t think being single made me think my life was terribly lacking in any way.  But, doesn’t a great love bring us closer to our higher selves?   When I was 18, I read Gibran just like every college freshman and his writing on Sorrow really stuck with me.  In fact, it’s been my mantra for life, “The deeper that sorrow carves into your being, the more joy it can contain.”   There has been great sorrow in my life….almost always followed by great joy….the yin and the yang.  You just can’t have one without the other. 

And, so I’ve waited and waited….sixteen years…for the great joy that follows the great sorrow.  Lots of missteps, false starts, abrupt endings, unsatisfying couplings.

Then, I started hearing things like….

“Mmmm….you look so beautiful in the morning.”

“You know, I think it’s really important that we talk about our relationship.  Tell me whatever you’re feeling.  I believe in total honesty.”

OH MY GOD!!!!  HE’S HERE!!!  MR. WONDERFUL IS HERE!!! 

~Brenda Thomas

Thanks, Brenda, for this inspirational story!   Remember, you can find your own “Mr. Wonderful”  no matter what age you are right now.  Just like Brenda did. And if you want a powerful Love Mentor ally to help you, click here and get your own free 40 minute Love Mentoring® session by phone or Skype. You may even be able to speak with Susan, Brenda’s coach, and get her dating advice in your free session.  But hurry, her time slots are limited!

Wishing you love,

Dr. Diana, The Love Mentor

♥Dating Advice, Love Mentoring® &  Relationship Advice from My Heart to Yours♥

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. has been a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & author of the highly acclaimed relationship advice book, “Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love” as well as the best-selling dating advice book, “Love in 90 Days.” Dr. Diana’s revolutionary work is the basis of her PBS Special on love and dating. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE Relationship Tips and Dating Advice Newsletter.

I’m really excited to invite you to join me for a very special online gathering, where I’m a featured guest speaker. In the You Can Have It All summit, I share insights  about the topic: “Finding Love in 90 Days, and Sealing the Deal” from a more spiritual perspective. You can participate in the event for free, and enjoy a series of conversations about  how ‘You Can Have it All: A Woman’s Keys to Success.’

When you join us, you’ll be invited to experience live healing circle meditations at the beginning of each conversation, to integrate your mind and heart energies and prepare you to receive the transformation we’ll be offering.

In addition, this unique event features an opportunity to reach out and help others: learn what you can do to help stop human slave trafficking, and what you can do to enrich the lives of the hard-working poor in African villages.

More than an online gathering, this is your chance to become the change you wish to see in the world. Don’t miss it! Go to  http://wwww.canhaveitallnow.com to find out more and register for the event.

The life-changing summit starts April 23 so mark your calendar! It is your invitation to make a huge leap in personal transformation. We’re anticipating a large community of participants, so be sure to join the calls 7 minutes early, to arrive in time for the meditation and to make sure you won’t lose your spot. Don’t miss out!

Also–when you register for this free summit, you’ll receive wonderful gifts!  Three life-changing meditations from the program, “Be Your Best You — in 40 Days.” $97  worth of valuable free bonuses!

The event starts April 23 , and will deliver tons of inspiration and keys to success.  It continues and will provide deep-level joy and wisdom in  the following 9 days!  Make yourself into what you want to be, and be the answer to someone else’s need too.

Don’t miss out–join with us!

Visit  http://wwww.canhaveitallnow.com now to join this free event and receive great gifts to help you on your journey to success.

Wishing you love,

Dr. Diana

Dating Advice for Women

This dating advice for women blog is an interview with one of our awesome professional Love Mentors®, Debbie Rivera,  a Master Certified Singles and Couples Coach.  Debbie  completed a four year ministry program &  specializes in  helping couples in crisis create breakthroughs & rekindle passionate love.  She teaches an interactive marriage preparation course.  Deb is passionate about working with singles to help them heal from past relationships to create true lasting love!  Now here is an interview with Debbie on how to  transform heartbreak to happiness:

How can you help someone go from a broken heart to being truly happy? When you heart is broken one of the first things you experience is the tremendous loss of a part of your life. You want it back! It belonged to you and now it is beyond your grasp. No matter what you try, it feels like you can’t get it to return.  That is when the fears and doubts begin to play tricks on your mind and now every moment you come up with ideas about how to get the person to return to you.  So the first order of business is: you must work through the fears and doubts.  Do you fear being alone forever?  Do you doubt that you are even lovable?  What is the real loss you are experiencing?  What is the lonely future you are seeing?

You are panicking and that is quite understandable. You hurt and you can’t stop the tears.  It is OK to feel this way.  You have to begin a process within yourself. I call it a journey.  It starts with feeling your feelings, feeling sad and lonely.  It takes some time, but as you feel them, they pass and the happiness will come.

One of the Love Mentees that I have worked with comes to my mind. She is such a kind and caring woman– who went from being completely devastated and heartbroken to being empowered and truly happy.  Her name is Angie and she is amazing!  When we started working together she had experienced heartbreak in the summer and was still carrying strong feelings for Mark eight months later.  They really got a long well at first and then one day he told her he had to leave for an out of town work-related trip and that he would call her.  He didn’t call and  just disappeared! Her heartbreak was huge.  This was such a low blow.  But the great news is now she has two great guys who are interested and are STUDS as Dr. Diana puts it. By the way she’s in her late forties, has never had children but wants them, and has never been married. So I want you to realize that you can turn your heartbreak into happiness too!

News Flash:  Tune into Debbie as she is interviewed on the nuts and bolts of how to transform heartbreak to happiness on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on March 20!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen, Click Here!

What did she do that took her from Heartbreak to not one but two great guys at once? It was definitely a journey and it didn’t happen overnight. It took time but she stayed at it. I have to tell you that there were times when she felt like giving up. She kept working at it and that allowed her to move forward even it was just in baby steps. When we first started working together, she couldn’t get past the fact that he just disappeared. Oh she went on dates but found them all boring and always wished she was with Mark. She didn’t enjoy the dates at all and just didn’t see the point of dating at all. Our early conversations were about the hurt, loss, and regrets of being without the man she believed she was to be with forever. She felt betrayed by the promise that he would call her while he was away when he hadn’t contacted her at all. Those thoughts just broke her heart all over again. She was lost and couldn’t even begin to move on until she was able to get an answer for what happened in the first place. They got along so well. They had great times together. How could things change so rapidly? It was painful and sad and no one else came close to being what Mark was. She felt that she must have been the problem – that Mark did not like who she was. To get to happiness something had to change from despair to hope. We had to find out together what was really underneath all of this for Angie. Her Relationship-Killer Beliefs were holding her back from anything, even the possibilities of a new love.

What do you mean by Killer Beliefs?The best way to explain your Killer Beliefs – your core beliefs is to have you imagine an ice berg. The things we know and are aware of are above the surface of the ice berg. Now you know that an ice berg can extend all the way down to the ocean floor where we can’t see how far down it goes. That is the same thing for your Killer Beliefs. These are negative core beliefs you are holding onto that you are unaware of and they are not in your conscious mind. You just are not aware you are believing hopeless thoughts about yourself, about men and about love. I really get excited when helping someone with their Killer Beliefs because I always want to take them where they want to go!! And when we work through these beliefs we can remove the roadblocks that get in their way. You too have roadblocks – we all do. So together we bring them up to the surface so we can work through them. Beliefs are a choice.  I asked Angie to look at what she was choosing to believe about herself and about love and that changed her life.  In the book, Sealing the Deal, there are some excellent exercises for understanding and getting rid of killer beliefs.

News Flash:  Tune into Debbie as she is interviewed on the nuts and bolts of how to transform heartbreak to happiness on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on March 20!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen, Click Here!

What happened next with Angie? What I call her journey to a Smartbreak instead of Heartbreak!!  I asked her to take a break from dating for a while. I also asked her to send a simple email to Mark. She didn’t want to at first but together we came up with one that she felt okay in sending. He immediately responded back and asked to see her. They met and had a great time. He asked to see her again and didn’t show up! He called and told her something came up. This just confused her more. She was really being cautious this time around and wanted to protect her heart.

Angie was beginning to notice who she was when they were together. It was all about him. She had to build him up and reassure him. She is such a great listener and really caring and nurturing. She never liked hurting anyone’s feelings let alone speaking up with her truth and have her deeper needs met. But she sure wasn’t comfortable with the way that Mark was treating her. She gave him one last chance and guess what, he left her stranded after promising to be there again, – no phone call, no text, nothing!

How did she get through that heartbreak again? During all of this we were working on why she was always protecting herself and only letting a guy get so close. She started opening up and realized that in fact she deserved far more than she has ever received. Angie is such a giving person and it was high time she experienced receiving. She also had difficulty talking and was a much better listener. Now I realize that for some of you it can be just the opposite. That is okay just give yourself permission to receive more, know that you deserve more, and never settle for less.

News Flash:  Tune into Debbie as she is interviewed on the nuts and bolts of how to transform heartbreak to happiness on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on March 20!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen, Click Here!

Sometimes we are not even aware of the impression we are giving out to those we date. Make sure you let the guys know you had a great time. Tell them at the end of the date. Open your heart and mind again. Angie did. She started dating again. This time she did things with an awareness and confidence that she never had before. It started out slowly. She went on two different dates with 2 different guys that allowed her to see the difference in the way she could be treated.  Both are smitten with her and interested in a long-term relationship. The next decision she will make is to choose someone who will be by her side forever. She will get married and have the family she’s always wanted. She is taking heartbreak and transforming it into the happiness she deserves.

You can do this too. Never lose hope.

You can find the love you deserve where you feel fulfilled and happy. Start with the Killer Beliefs. Find out what you are choosing to believe. Then I want you to ask yourself what the truth is–about what you truly deserve and want to create in your life. I want you to take one step forward away from heartbreak and one step closer to real happiness. You can do it.

Thank you for your inspiration, Debbie! You can get your own one-on-one free 40 minute Love Mentoring® Session with Debbie  by phone or Skype! Just click here  & fill out the form, requesting Debbie.  Hurry–her time will fill up quickly!

Tune into Debbie as she is interviewed on our Love in 90 Days- Blogtalk radio show, live on March 20!   (And archived thereafter!)  To listen,Click Here!

“I Believe I Just Got the Goodbye Look (Transforming Your Heartbreak to Happiness)” -The dating advice for women interview with Love Mentor® Debbie Rivera

DATE: Tuesday, March 20, 2011      TIME: 5:00 pm Pacific/8:00pm Eastern for one hour

COST: No charge  JOIN US LIVE VIA: Telephone, Skype, and Replay Access-Click Here For Details

     In this free dating advice for women seminar you will discover . . .

• Tips for Healing your Sadness &  Heartbreak
• How to Change your Routine/Change Your Life
• How to Get your Confidence back (more on this in Love in 90 Days)
• Discover what your TTLC needs are (these are your deepest emotional needs)
• Work on your Killer Beliefs
• Know your Dating Patterns
• Find the Love You Deserve

Please interact with us live during the show by visiting:  Facebook.com/DrDianaKirschner
Twitter.com/drdiana or Blog Talk Radio Chat

Thank you, Debbie, for your wise words and dating advice for women. If you would like a free 40-minute love mentoring session  by phone or Skype with Debbie, click here or go to www.lovein90days.com/coaching and ask for Debbie on the form. For more information about this and future Love Mentoring® Seminars please visit-
http://www.lovementoring.com

Wishing you love,

Dr. Diana

♥Dating Tips & Relationship Advice from My Heart to Yours♥

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & author of the highly acclaimed relationship advice book, “Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love” as well as the best-selling dating advice book, “Love in 90 Days.” Dr. Diana’s revolutionary work is the basis of her PBS Special on love and dating for over 50s. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE Relationship Tips and Dating Advice Newsletter.

Dating Advice for Women Series

Today is the first day of the  Chinese Year of the Dragon— A year of good fortune and a great time to take action and make your dreams come true.  Most auspicious!  A fantastic time to make simple changes that lead to big and wonderful life transformations.

So I wanted to share this inspirational email that Joanne, a woman who was in our Love Mentoring program, wrote to her Mentor:

“I’m writing to share my GREAT news with you! Mike and I GOT ENGAGED last Tuesday night in Walt Disney World (my happiest place on Earth, next to wherever I am with him!). He chartered a private yacht and while the Wishes fireworks were going over Cinderella’s castle, he proposed to me in such a romantic way. It was everything I could have ever dreamed! We are planning a June wedding. We also just purchased a townhome and are moving in soon.

This past Thursday was one year since we met for coffee. And he wanted me to make sure I told you that it was one of the photos I wore red (remember you told me this was a good color to wear?) and had professionally done, that made him contact me! I had told him about Love Mentoring and remember well our great phone sessions. I wanted to make sure I told you and to of course, thank you so much! Please do pass this along to Dr. Diana.”

The interesting thing about Joanne’s email is it shows how a simple change can make all the difference in your life!  Research shows that men rate women who wear red as more attractive.   And also, they are drawn to women who show an hourglass figure.  So Joanne’s Love Mentor asked her to wear a red scoop top in her online dating photos.  He also asked her to have them professionally done (but not so they looked posed.)

Just taking your time to create a really good online dating photo like Joanne did is a very powerful thing to do.  I know, I know, it seems like it requires too much time and energy, and maybe like it is a pain in your you-know-what to get new photos.  And you may feel like you ALWAYS look lousy in them.  (But, believe me, everyone, and I mean everyone can get at least one good photo!!!).  Get yourself a good red top or dress with a scoop neck that shows some décolletage.  Then either have a friend who is a good photographer take at least 100 shots of you, or go to a professional photographer and have some casual shots taken.  Make sure to wear some makeup, smile warmly and make eye contact with the camera (research shows that women who do that are rated as more attractive by men).

Just take a little time and do it and see what a difference it makes in the number and quality of guys you are meeting online.  You will be very pleasantly surprised.  This year of the Dragon may turn out to be one of the best years of your life.

And if you would like to have a free 40 minute coaching session by phone or Skype with your very own Love Mentor, where you can talk about improving your online photo or anything else that is urgent in your love life, just click here and fill out the form.

Wishing you love,

Dr. Diana

Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & author of the highly acclaimed relationship advice book, “Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love” as well as the best-selling dating advice book, “Love in 90 Days.” Dr. Diana’s revolutionary work is the basis of her PBS Special on love and dating. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE Relationship Tips and Dating Advice Newsletter.