Find Serenity By Not Overgiving


“Dear Dr. Diana, I have done the Spiritual Diamond Self work from your new book, The Diamond Self Secret, and it was a magical experience to come up with “Caring Emissary of the Light” as my spiritual nickname. I really was able to find serenity and stillness of mind! But sometimes it is very hard [...]

Say Hello to Inner Peace & Goodbye to Your Inner Critic

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I’d like to share with you an excerpt from my latest book, The Diamond Self Secret: Say Good-Bye to Your Inner Critic and Hello to Self-Acceptance, Serenity, and Lasting Love. Enjoy the read! There is one person you are almost never grateful to. You have ignored her efforts, minimized her triumphs and magnified her failures. [...]

Appreciation: The Key to Happiness

Partners in passionate long-term relationships live in a state of appreciation for each other. They tend see each other through a glass half-full perspective rather than a half-empty one. In other words, they tend to place greater value on each other’s positive qualities rather than their negatives. They recognize that everyone has issues: there is [...]

Boomer Dating Tips: Love For Women Over 40

Boomer Dating advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, stars in Finding Your Own True Love, a PBS TV Special based on her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days. Dr. Diana inspires over 40 women (and men) with practical boomer dating tips plus relationship advice to help them bring more love into their lives. Let’s [...]

Long Distance Relationships: Should I Move 3000 Miles?

Long Distance Relationships can be challenging. You meet a great person and it feels like a glorious, soulmate relationship. You are dreaming about an amazing future with this great match, who definitely feels like the One. Only problem is, he or she lives a long way away from where you are. And you are afraid [...]

Are Men Really After One Thing? Part 1

Are men really after one thing: sex? Commercials, ads, sitcoms, reality shows and popular magazines certainly tell us so. There are guys in beer commercials ogling babes. Characters in sitcoms that thrive on double entendre jokes showing they are always on the prowl to score. Steamy hot tub scenes and couples rushing into the bedroom [...]

Single at Holiday Time? Five Ways to Cope


Single at holiday time? Another year and another string of holidays are coming fast.  And you are still single. Thanksgiving. Christmas. Hanukkah.  Are you doomed to a miserable holiday if your family drives you nuts? Does Aunt Millie always cluck about what a shame it is that you are single? Or do people get tipsy while you [...]

Living Together Before Marriage: Part 2

In Part 1 of living together we looked at the transformed social landscape, a place in which the number of people living together had surpassed those who were married. Then I shared the story of Shelley & Jared, two 30- somethings that had decided to live together. Like other couples, Shelley and Jared thought that [...]