When summer fades away many of us suffer from a dip in our mood. As the sun loses strength and the air is cooler it may be a bit of a let down when you realize that winter and the holidays are just ahead. And we all know that the holidays can be tough when you are single. But there is also good news when the weather turns. I don’t just mean the amazing foliage, crunchy apples and fresh pumpkin pie. In my experience, it’s easier to meet your Soulmate in the Fall! There are three reasons for this. But before we get to them I want you to take a moment and take advantage of my free weekly support. You can learn much more about dating successfully so that you meet your soulmate by signing up for my free Dating Tips and Relationship Advice Newsletter.
Now let’s look at how Fall may be the best time to meet your soulmate. First, singles, like all of us, raised in the rhythm of a school calendar, are conditioned to buy new wardrobes and give themselves a mini-makeover in the fall—so they feel more attractive and ready to go for it. Second, for around the first 20 years of our lives, including preschool and college, we are encouraged by our families to socialize in autumn as we enter a new grade with new peers. This form of conditioning tends to shape our behavior even when formal schooling ends.
Finally, the fall is a signal that the holidays are coming up and nothing can be more depressing than facing another round of holidays alone. This realization mobilizes singles to roll up their sleeves and work more proactively on their dating, so there’s more love to go around. In fact, two studies have shown that dating in the fall can lead to increased romantic involvements later in the year.
So, no matter what your age, Fall is a great time to network. The secret to falling back to real love is to take advantage of all the new connections by networking and meeting as many people as possible. My Dating Program of Three is a powerful strategy that has you date three people casually with no sex and is your ticket to a real relationship. Meet as many people as possible: use the Autumn dating advantage!
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Wishing you love,
Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & author of the highly acclaimed new relationship advice book, “Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love” as well as the best-selling dating advice book, “Love in 90 Days.” Dr. Diana’s revolutionary work is the basis of her PBS Special on love. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE Relationship Tips and Dating Advice Newsletter.