Have you ever dreamed of putting an end to the LONELINESS of doing it all by yourself? Of feeling secure and nourished by a real partner who Appreciates You for Who You Really Are?
What if I told you that in all walks of life those who have mentors inevitably do way better than those who don’t. Study after study has shown that adults who are mentored are more successful in their careers and in school. Women, in particular, have greatly benefited from mentoring with reports of greater self-esteem and a heightened ability to break through the “glass ceiling.”
And love is no different. Even Cinderella had her fairy godmother. We all remember the story:
Suddenly the fairy godmother appeared and waved her magic wand. In a flash, Cinderella appeared in a splendid dress, shining with youth and beauty. Her stepmother and stepsisters gaped at her in amazement, and the ministers said, “Come with us Cinderella! The Prince is waiting for you.” So Cinderella married the Prince and lived happily ever after.
The fairy godmother and her magical wand. Nothing like that really exists, right? Only in children’s books and movies that are designed for flights of fancy and moments of escape from the harsh day-to-day grind of relationship challenges and disappointments. Or do they occur in real life?
I never believed in fairy godmothers until something happened to me many years ago. But before I tell you the story, I want to reintroduce myself! I’m Dr. Diana Kirschner and you may have seen me on my PBS Special, Finding Your Own True Love, based on my bestselling book, Love in 90 Days, or running the 90 Day Love Challenge on the Fox Morning Show. I also ran a post-graduate and accredited training center in marriage and family therapy and have published three books and numerous papers in the field of psychotherapy. For over 25 years I have helped thousands of single women find love.
And I would like to help you too. The first step in getting started is to get FREE ongoing support from me by Clicking Here to sign up for my free Dating Tips & Relationship Advice Newsletter. It shows you EXACTLY how to find and date terrific guys and how to create a lasting and great love relationship!
Now back to my story: What happened is that years ago my very own fairy godmother began to oversee and open up my dating and love life. Only it was in the form of a “he.” A fairy godfather who got me out of settling for crumbs, out of loneliness and into the ball–and deep into my forever love story with my amazing husband. (with many bumps, because it is a real life happily ever after!) My Love Mentor was Dr. Arthur Stein and he was the psychologist who originated many of the principles I have written about in my bestselling book, Love in 90 Days. He was the original Love Mentor who saw my Diamond Self, saw past my warts and pimples to the perfect soul in little old moi. (Your Diamond Self is your most lovable, empowered, best-self identity. And it is this identity that a great Love Mentor helps to bring out. And yes, you have a great Diamond Self!)
This is how I learned that the most important thing you can do to truly amp up your dating and love life was to get coaching from Love Mentors! These are people who are crazy about you, cheer you on, confront you as needed, boost your self esteem and assist you in becoming your most beautiful self. Love mentors to help you with your Inner Work, that is, in developing real self-love and positive self-talk, along with the Outer Work, helping you bust through shyness with the hotties so that you can find and date terrific partners. Lots of them! So ultimately you can form a lasting and great love relationship.
Tyra Banks did a little ‘experiment’ on her talk show which was a good illustration of the power of coaching when it comes to dating. She gave a few gorgeous girls, including herself, ‘makeunders’ while some plain ones were glammed up. Then they all went out in public. The former ‘plain girls’ stood up straighter and showed more confidence and charisma while the other girls did just the reverse. This was a good illustration of mentoring in action–going in both positive and negative directions
I got to thinking, why is there no Love mentor service for dating?
Well now there is!! I just started a highly personalized Love Mentor coaching service. Now you can have one-on-one coaching from a trained Love Mentor who has used Love in 90 Days principles to get happily married. Each one has a long background in transformational work and is closely supervised by me. Most importantly, each Mentor is gifted and can help you move forward to the love relationship you really want!
The best news is, right now, as we kick off the Love Mentor Coaching we can give you an introductory 40 minute one-on-one personalized session by phone or Skype for FREE. No strings attached. Just Click Here to contact me and get your own personal FREE session asap, because the time slots are filling up very fast.
“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our heart and we are never, ever the same.” ~ Anon
.Are You:
- tired of meeting people who are disappointing–not even in the ballpark?
- uncertain about a relationship & wondering if you have a future together?
- shy with the ones you really want?
- feel stuck in a relationship that disappoints and hurts you?
- attracted to the wrong type of people?
- feeling devastated by a nasty break-up or divorce?
- struggling to get to a COMMITMENT with your current partner?
- unable to find the One?
- meeting great people, only to see them fade away and DISAPPEAR?
The Love Mentoring program can help you do a 180 in your love life! It can help you go from wondering when or if you will ever meet Mr. or Ms. Right to the security of a fulfilling, lasting relationship.
Just Click Here to contact me and get your FREE personalized one-on-one session asap, because the time slots are filling up very fast.
Here are a few questions you could ask in your Love Mentoring session.
- How to use a Love Intention to call in the One
- How to quickly get out of heartbreak
- How to build irresistible confidence & charisma
- How to deepen your relationship
- How to get great results from your online dating program
- How to magnify your confidence on the way to the first meeting
- How to determine if he or she is the One
- What to do if you are feeling shy
- How to become magnetically attractive to the ones you want
- How to get the commitment you want
Besides being a love mentor to many women I’ve also played the role of business mentor to women in large companies here and in Europe. I can tell you that in my experience, having a Love Mentor leads to greater success with men in much the same way as having work mentors helps career advancement. Remember, Cinderella had her Fairy Godmother.
Many singles asked me to be their personal Love Mentor and I have simply not had the time to do it because of my writing and TV schedule. But now I have hand-selected women who are seasoned transformational coaches, who have successfully used my program to overcome their dead-end dating patterns and become happily married. And I am personally supervising them to give you highly specialized one-on-one dating coaching and love mentoring.
So now you can have your very own caring, devoted and knowledgeable Love Mentor who gives you love inspiration, support, plus the most powerful dating tips and relationship advice. To help you find the Love of your life and make your dreams come true. And the best news is, right now, as we kick off the Love Mentor Coaching we can give you an introductory 60 minute one-on-one personalized session for FREE. No strings attached.
Just Click Here to contact me asap and get your free 40 minute one-on-one personal love mentoring session by phone or Skype, because the time slots are filling up very fast.
Here’s a letter from Robin who used Love Mentoring to create the relationship she really wanted:
“Having a Love Mentor was what allowed me to get married. That guidance helped me get over my tendency to blame the other person and wanting to be right. Nurturing loving guidance combined with a firm hand in letting me know when I was being a spoiled brat allowed me to look at my own patterns from a neutral perspective. I learned that I deserve to be supported on all levels, including financially–that I could have a true reciprocal loving partnership. Our wedding was spectacular and I couldn’t be any happier!”
***If Robin can do it, so can you.
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Wishing you Love,
Dr. Diana
P. S. If you’d like to send me a question or ask about a problem you’re having that I can answer or better yet, share a Success Story! — please e-mail me at www.lovein90days.com/contact/
Though I may not be able to respond directly to every email, I WILL DO MY UTMOST TO PERSONALLY READ YOUR LETTER! It’s been my life’s work to help people especially in matters of the heart. If I use your letter I will absolutely change your name and location to protect your identity. If you don’t want me to use your email, please tell me. Please use the following simple format when you write to me:
1. One or two paragraphs at most
2. Get as specific as you can – the details help
me really get a feel for your unique situation.
If you haven’t already done so, please order my book Love in 90 Days in either kindle or paperback. It will change your love life. It’s on sale now.
xo
Dr. Diana Kirschner
♥ Relationship advice from my heart to yours ♥
Diana Kirschner, Ph.D. is a frequent guest psychologist on The Today Show & best-selling author of “Love in 90 Days” (dating advice book)” out now in paperback (at Amazon) with a new chapter on “Dating Games Men Play.” Love in 90 Days was the basis of her PBS Special on love. Connect with Dr. Diana through her FREE relationship & dating advice newsletter.
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