Four Best Sex Secrets: Part 1
Bridget just entered the dating scene after 20 years of a sexless marriage. After the divorce dust settled from that empty relationship she looked in the mirror and saw a flabby, overweight and unattractive 51 year old staring back. “How can I get my mojo back?” she wondered out loud. After a quick and intimidating tour of a couple of online dating sites, Bridget made a decision to do something monumental for herself. For herself alone. She contacted us for a free Love Mentoring session by phone. After that free yet very powerful (her words) coaching Intro she felt a new sense of excitement and possibility.
Bridget signed up for ongoing dating coaching with one of my expert Love Mentors®. And within the year found new charisma and new confidence. And the great love of her life, John, a warm chiropractor. The chemistry with John was like a scene out of Fifty Shades of Grey. He was crazy about Bridget. And after a few months of keeping him waiting, she was finally ready to answer ‘yes’ to his requests for exclusivity. And ‘yes’ to his longing to get more intimate. But she was worried about being sexual. Bridget was never able to feel very passionate in all the years of her long marriage. And she felt like a novice in the bedroom. Terrified that things would go south (and not in a good way). That’s when her Love Mentor taught Bridget the four best sex secrets. And that could make her love with John play out in the most fulfilling way. In the most passionate way. And I am happy to say, the four best sex secrets did just that.
Bridget handled her sexual life very well in that she did not have sex prematurely. But once she did start, she made a commitment to learning about how to enjoy great sex. And learning about the four best sex secrets. Making love is a not a good idea before you have a serious committed relationship. But once you are committed, having the best sex possible is very important. It helps your relationship last and get even better over time. And the four best sex secrets helped. Did you know that really fulfilling sex releases endorphins. And that elevates mood. And and lowers stress and even pain levels? After having satisfying sex, each partner associates feeling good with the other. Testosterone, the sexual hormone engine for both men and women, also generates feelings of connection. And finally, having sex drives up levels of oxytocin (the cuddle, tend & befriend hormone). That explains why for many men, (and women) having sex is usually synonymous with feeling intimate and close. So how do you create the best sex? Read on for the best sex secrets.
Four Best Sex Secrets — Part One
Best Sex Secrets – #1 Novelty
Dopamine is one of the infatuation brain chemicals that gives us that awesome over-the-moon feeling. It is produced when we first fall in love. And then through new and novel activities keep dopamine infatuation going. Well, nothing keeps the dopamine going more than novelty in bed. So the best sex secret #1 is: vary the places you make love, vary the way you set the stage through candlelight, a bubble bath, feathers, sex toys, whipped cream, or new kinds of lingerie and sexy outfits. Vary your foreplay and try different sexual positions. You might end up laughing yourselves silly as you experiment. Neither my husband nor I is a gymnast, so some of the Kama Sutra is a laugh riot for us. Take it all as fun and games. In the end, make sure that both of you are fully satisfied. No matter whether that’s achieved orally, manually, or through intercourse. Sex is a wonderful gift to be enjoyed and shared by both of you. Good, frequent sex promotes your own physical and mental health. And that of your man, and the vitality of the relationship. Among other things, it is associated with a reduced incidence of breast cancer in women who have never had a child. And more restful sleep, greater pain relief and elevation of mood. And, looking younger, overall fitness, longevity, and happiness!
Best Sex Secrets – #2 Sexual Trance
- Sexual trance involves an inward focus where each partner focuses on his or her own pleasure and sensations. And creates a fulfilling sexual release. In win-win sex, each of you is pleasured and finds a strong release in orgasm. Learn by experimenting so that you know what works for him. And what works for you. This is an important best sex secret to passionate longterm love that my Love Mentors can teach you about.
- In order to learn what works for him, try touching, massaging, licking, or stimulating all the different parts of his body. Observe and ask him questions about what feels good. Try different sexual acts, variations of intercourse positions, and, most important, oral sex. Virtually all men adore oral sex. This is what men really want. If you have a problem with this, consider the fact that if your man showers, chances are his mouth has more germs than his penis does!
You can learn much more about the best sex secrets and creating passionate true love by having your own free 40 minute one-on-one Intro Love Mentoring® session by phone or Skype! You will get to talk to an expert handpicked dating coach who is caring, wise and so knowledgeable. My Love Mentors are the few people I would turn to for love advice!!
Wishing you love,
“My Love Mentor pinpointed the exact reasons I didn’t have the love I wanted in my life with an arrow that led to their resolution. My mentoring sessions opened the doorway to true relationship happiness and self-esteem.” ~ Shelly, Denver