Comments on: Are you shy? You can still attract the person of your dreams!

By: Dr. Diana Kirschner

Dr. Diana Kirschner — Sun, 24 Oct 2010 17:45:34 +0000

Some people do not find it so easy to simply talk to someone. In fact, many many singles have asked me exactly how to show a person that you are in fact interested. This is not a game, it is about gaining new kinds of communications skills!

By: Velox

Velox — Sun, 24 Oct 2010 15:09:27 +0000

Sorry but this is retarded advice. I could never play these kind of cheap games. If I like a guy I’ll talk to him, end of story. Sometimes guys are surprised, but its mostly appreciated.

By: Pure Country

Pure Country — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 22:18:04 +0000

All the guys who think the woman should be the agressor need to grow a pair. Seriously, i’d prefer a woman to go through the steps there and have that jumpy heartbeat when I go talk to her, then have a girl come up to me and lay it out. Thats too easy, and its not nearly as fun. I like to pursue, so let me chase you. If you make it easy, im not inclined to stay with you. and when i talk to you, dont be shallow, have some charisma, and humor. Itll get you far in life

By: Lance;)

Lance;) — Sat, 23 Oct 2010 22:08:59 +0000

To the ladies, I agree, make eye contact, and look away, but smile just a bit when he sees you looking. If he doesnt come over, its for two reasons, hes not interested, or hes too shy. The best pickup line ive ever used is “Hi.”so go up and say hi, if hes not into you, then move on to the next one. if a girl touches me when were talking, that tells me shes OBVIOUSLY interested. Some guys dont know how to take that first step, or they misinterpret the signals. But if he comes over, stay confident, dont do the lean forward an show him your cleavage thing, sends a different signal usually meaning, i wanna fool around, or i want another drink. happy huntin;)

By: yeldarb11

yeldarb11 — Fri, 22 Oct 2010 17:00:13 +0000

WOW. I wish it were all this simple. If you are interested, say so. If she calls the cops, RUN. If she drops to her knees, RUN. Everything else is fair game. My name is Brad. What’s your name? May I …… (have a seat? buy you a drink? etc….) You are very beautiful. Tell her why you are there. (please be tasteful, I noticed your huge knockers is not appropriate. Everyone noticed them. big deal.) Ask her! Speaking from a commited relationship, even if she is “taken” her BF should be honored that you are interested. I know I am when it happens. I just smile because I know she is with me and that point is not likely to change. (She declines gracefully.) ASK HER.